People pleasing is not a weakness, it’s a learned form of self-protection. Long before the tendency to cater to the needs of others became exhausting and confusing, it served a survival purpose.
When you’re struggling, how do you usually talk to yourself? For many people, the inner voice is more of a harsh critic than a supportive friend. Phrases like “I should be over this by now” or “Why can’t I handle this better?” can come up quickly when we’re under stress.
When you are feeling “checked out”, emotionally overwhelmed or burnt out, a helpful tool is the concept of the Window of Tolerance.
Identity, can be a big word with a lot of meaning. So many aspects of our lives are shaped by the way the world perceives us and how we perceive it and ourselves.

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