People pleasing is not a weakness, it’s a learned form of self-protection. Long before the tendency to cater to the needs of others became exhausting and confusing, it served a survival purpose.
Self-compassion is often very misunderstood. Many people imagine it as a warm, gentle feeling toward themselves, and think it is something that should come naturally once they have “worked on themselves enough.”
Procrastination is often framed as being a productivity problem. We are told that we need better discipline, stronger willpower, or more effective time management tools. For many people though, procrastination is not about being lazy or not having the motivation, but has a lot to do with emotions.
Oftentimes, when individuals imagine the process of improving their mental health, they picture months of counselling, piles of homework, and solutions that feel beyond their current reach.

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