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Holding Boundaries During the Holidays: How to Protect Your Peace
Have you ever gone into the holidays excited… and then suddenly felt drained, overwhelmed, or pulled in a dozen different directions?
When Friendships Fade: A Holiday Reflection
As the holiday season approaches, many people begin reflecting on their relationships.
Honoring Your Roots While Still Being Independent
For many first- and second-generation individuals, finding independence can feel like a delicate balancing act
Grief & Divorce: The Role Grief Plays in the Healing Process
We grieve many things throughout our lives, relationship breakdowns, goals we have not attained, and at some points our own sense of self.
Cultural Boundaries Saying “NO” Without Guilt
Have you ever dishonored yourself just to keep the peace?
Grief of a Relationship: Why Breakups Feel Like a Death (And How We Move Through It)
Grief doesn’t only come around when someone dies. We also grieve breakups.
The "Ouch!" Technique: A Simple Way to Defuse Hurtful Comments
Have you ever heard of the “Ouch!” technique? It's a super simple and quite effective method to address hurtful comments.
How To Manage Anger During Conflict
Often when we think of anger, we see it as a negative emotion, especially during conflict with others.
Navigating Healthy Relationships While Maintaining a Strong Sense of Self
Have you ever felt like you’re falling short or insecure in your relationships
From Gaslit to Glowing: Your Post-Toxic Relationship Guide
Relationships are supposed to bring love, trust, and emotional support
"I Said Sorry!" How to Tell When an Apology Is Genuine
Have you ever heard someone say, "I'm sorry," but it didn't really feel like an apology, or you needed more?
Caught in the Middle: The Dual Role of the Sandwich Generation
Picture this: You're navigating a busy life with a career, children, and a household when another responsibility calls, one you embrace with love and respect: caring for an aging parent.
Write Your Own Love Story: Creating Authentic Valentine’s Day Traditions
I don’t know about you, but Valentine’s Day stressed me out for decades, starting with anxiety over whether my carefully decorated shoebox would be as full of tiny cards as everyone else’s…
Checking in on Boundaries
Boundaries is a term that has gained popularity since our society finally decided that mental health exists, ought to be talked about, and something worth caring for.
Debunking Myths About Relationship Therapy
In my practice, I have discovered that there are many myths about relationship therapy which often deter people from seeking support.
The Role of Boundaries in Healthy Relationships
In the context of relationships, boundaries are personal guidelines that define what individuals are comfortable with, and expect others to respect.
When Words Hurt: Communication, Condescension, and Neglect in Couples
In any romantic relationship, communication forms the foundation for trust, connection, and emotional intimacy.
Exploring “Bids for Connection” in Relationships
For me, one of the most interesting concepts from therapists John and Julie Gottman is the idea of emotional “Bids,” which are attempts that individuals make to connect with their partners.
Putting Yourself First Again: Rebuilding Self-Worth and Boundaries
Are you constantly tending to your partner's needs, feelings, and problems?

